So I managed to successfully exchange emails with this girl I want to be friends with. I followed the advice of saying "maybe we could talk sometime" in my other question. I think that exchange went really well… certainly better than I was expecting.

A few hours later I sent her this message… and haven’t got a response yet for like 2 days. :-(

Did I somehow ‘manage’ to do something wrong? Admittedly, maybe I got a little too excited too soon, but idk?

We did talk a little in person on several different occasions before, so we’re not total strangers. She initiated the first short conversation and the next times I did.

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Hi [her name omitted],

That was a great [sport omitted] scrimmage today!!! You sure are improving… guess I need to practice more to keep up. ;)

It’s still snowing a tiny bit over here, I love snow so hopefully more will come. Do you like snow as well?

Also I remember that [her brother's name omitted] said he liked to study Geography, so here’s several cool online quizzes which I occasionally try. Starts fairly easy at the beginning but gets harder as time progresses. It’s quite fun! http://www.travelpod.com/traveler-iq

Have to do some household work now, but you can email me anytime. :) I actually don’t use a cellphone (yes it’s hard to believe, since almost everyone has them!).

[my name omitted]
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Girls, would you get offended or put off or something… cause I don’t know what’s going on. BTW, I restrained myself from sending multiple message/s in a row as I’m at least smart enough to know that for sure is a bad idea. I just sent the one above.

Am I’m worrying too much over nothing… could be she doesn’t reply to emails or is too busy?

I don’t think that there is anything to worry about. It was a very nice and well written letter. I don’t think that there was anything in there that she would be offended by. Since it’s the holidays, I would just assume that she’s busy doing things with her family and stuff like that. Hold your head up! Hope I helped!

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5 Responses to “Did I do something wrong :-(?”

  1. Joe Says:

    Yes you are worrying too much.
    It could be shes not interested. That would’nt be the end of the world you know.
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  2. Photographer xx Says:

    I don’t think that there is anything to worry about. It was a very nice and well written letter. I don’t think that there was anything in there that she would be offended by. Since it’s the holidays, I would just assume that she’s busy doing things with her family and stuff like that. Hold your head up! Hope I helped!
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  3. MontrealPrincess#1 Says:

    You didn’t do anything wrong. She might just be busy.
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  4. Genevieve Says:

    You seem like a very nice guy…maybe you’re TOO nice. It could be that you’re putting yourself out there too much or making yourself too available. Women, just like men, like a challenge once in a while.
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  5. Green Eggs&Ham Says:

    I have friends who NEVER check their emails. I moved, so I gave all my friends my email. I emailed my best friend, and she didn’t reply until 4 months later! She was just a very busy person. To me, this was crazy that someone doesn’t check their email for that long, but to her, it was completely normal. Maybe she’s like that too :) Now, I bet she’ll check it earlier than my friend did.

    Also, your letter is kinda formal….it reminds me of my writing reports for school (friendly letters). I doubt she was offended by that, but maybe she didn’t know how to reply…like she didn’t want her reply to sound like a text, compared to your sophisticated letter. But there is NO way she could be offended.

    Good luck :)
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